Sean: attitude and faith

Although Sean’s parents aren’t sure why they were selected to be a Children’s Hospital of Georgia Ambassador Family, 11-year-old Sean has a quick answer, “Have you seen me?”

Then an irrepressible grin lights up his pale little face, crowned by short dark hair where a mohawk once stood, and his parents Tonya and DJ laugh with him.

That attitude and their faith have supported Sean and his family the past two and a half years. In 2015, Sean started complaining of stomach issues. Mornings became a routine of throwing up. “We went to countless doctors,” said Tonya, traveling from their tiny hometown community of Eatonton, Georgia. The focus was always on Sean’s abdomen, and no one could find the source.

By fall 2017, the family was referred to the Children’s Hospital of Georgia. While they were waiting for results, Sean complained about his shoulder hurting and, “Mama, it hurts to swallow.” The local ER referred them to an orthopedist. But that same week, while Tonya, a real estate agent, was finishing up showing a property, Sean alongside her, he suddenly said, “Mama, I’m going to be sick.” Then, “Mama, I can’t breathe.”

“I was trying to get him to the hospital and his eyes were rolling back and he was broken out in a sweat, and he couldn’t feel his hands. He said, ‘Tell Daddy I love him,’” said Tonya, her voice breaking at the words. “I said, ‘Stop talking, save your breath.’”

When she arrived at the local ER, Tonya ran inside cradling her son. Doctors noticed his white cell counts were high and suspected a urinary tract infection. But Tonya knew that couldn’t be it.

The family returned to the Children’s Hospital of Georgia, where in tears, Tonya told Dr. Rebecca Yang, a pediatrician at the Children’s Hospital of Georgia, “Please listen to me, there’s something wrong, right here,” pointing to Sean’s chest. She remembers Yang responding “in the sweetest and most reassuring voice, ‘Of course, mama, no one knows your baby like you do.’ Then came the breakthrough: X-rays found a large mass, crowding in on Sean’s heart and turning his airway to a tiny pinhole.

Sean was just days away from his airway being closed off.

He went immediately to the PICU, a team of physicians wheeling him carefully the entire way to ensure the mass didn’t shift and cut off his air. Steroids helped shrink the mass, then the diagnosis came back: Stage 3 lymphoblastic lymphoma.

DJ said, “I just put my head down on the table. We were devastated.”

But at the same time, there was reassurance. The vague symptoms finally had a name, and there was a protocol as well as a nationwide clinical trial available to treat it.

Sean’s now into month 9 of the two-year protocol. There have been setbacks, including a month-long hospitalization due to a fungus invading his body, no match for his fragile immune system. In January, Sean’s platelets stopped recovering from chemotherapy, so the family has discussed bone marrow transplantation and a lower-dose protocol.

There’s no school due to risk of infection—“I’m good with that,” said Sean—but he misses church, so much so that his pastor held a special outdoor sunrise service at Easter so that Sean could attend, with the warning to the congregation, “Do not touch him. Love him from afar.”

Even on the long days when he’s getting therapy, Sean finds ways to have fun, including pranking his favorite child life specialist, Kim. “But the best thing would be to get done,” he said matter-of-factly. “I’d like to come here and not get stuck.”

“But what do you always say?” prompts Tonya. “God’s got this,” said Sean. “That’s right,” she said.

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